Tuesday, August 14, 2012
It's been a long time since my last post.
Well, it's been a long time since I've blogged - yes, I've fallen prey to Facebook as my new social media time stealer. But, can you blame me? People actually read my posts there! So, while I experiment with ways to print my Facebook posts into a book so I can go back and read about my crazy family & friends, I'll go back to recording my thoughts here. At least I know I can post my blog via Blog to Print into a nice hardbound book one day - like I did for the red Webs. [Yes.... I miss them. Why did they have to move back to Bama.]
So, to catch up, I'll start with the weather (always a great conversation starter). It has finally started to cool off here in Kansas after the hottest summer on record. We are still in a drought - farmers are qualifying for aid which means increased prices on food - but, hey, at least we are no longer experiencing triple digit temperatures. However, we are experiencing triple digit utility bills. Our electric bill last month was a whopping $536 - highest on record for us. I'm sure that was a combination of the extreme heat, a broken air conditioner that had to be replaced due to prior hail damage, an extra family member [summer houseguest, college intern Dave Lawler), and the fact we spent most of our summer here at home.
We did start off summer with a 10 day vacation to Florida. Since we had no snow last winter (and you thought I was finished with the weather) and thus, no snow days, school ended early and Caleb finally got to celebrate a birthday with extended family over Memorial Day. We had a pool party at Aunt Lisa & Uncle Mike's for our 11 year old with all my siblings and their families. While in Florida we also visited Harry Potter at Universal, went to a luau and stayed at the Lowe's Royal Palms hotel and made it to a couple of beaches. We also enjoyed spending time with our former neighbors-turned-Floridians, the McWains - always great to see Chrissy and the kids! We ended summer doing what just about everyone else was doing - watching the summer Olympics held in London. It was the golden year for athletes Michael Phelps (swimming), the US women's gymnastics team, the US women's soccer team, Mo Farah and Usain Bolt of Jamaica (track), US basketball team (untouchable), and the beach volleyball duo with Misty May-Treanor and Kerri Walsh. I really like the runner who didn't win, but that had no legs - the Blade Runner, they called him. What an inspiring story. Also the blind man who competed in archery. How did he do it? The cyclist mom who came back and won her race - in her 40's. The stories are always so captivating. Personally, I preferred the last winter olympics because my cousin Charlie and his partner Meryl won the silver in Ice Dancing.... but that's just me...
Back to the family update: Josh is 16, driving, working at McDonald's to save up $ for a car, and will be a junior in high school this fall. Caleb is 11 and loves playing soccer, football and basketball. We're looking forward to fall sports and cheering him on. Caleb has had a summer job of sorts this summer - doing an allergy research study. I think he's made more money than his older brother. But he's spending it just as fast on ipods, legos, and wrestling figures. How fun to be 11. I still teach online and work part time for a church and my husband of 21 years still is provost and chief academic officer of a college. That's one way to get a free education for our kids, right? And finally, our loyal dog, Maverick, seems to be almost seizure free and I give most of the credit to his new dog food - Blue Buffalo! It's expensive but worth it.
Nothing much else has changed.... still live in the same house, everyone is relatively healthy (even though I'm wishing I could slow the aging process). I still drive a Mini and love it. Terry still loves his red Honda motorcycle, although I did see him eyeing a Harley just yesterday. We still hold season tickets to the dinner theater, love movies, eating out at Bravo, Jose Peppers, Moes, Five Guys, Twisters, and even McDonalds - well, it's convenient since my son works there.
Life in 2012 has been good. We are blessed with health, good friends, family, jobs and a great church. I pray though for my friends who've had a tougher year - especially for my friend Joyce. Cancer is such a hard cross to bear. We never know what is around our corner, so live every day well and full. Be grateful for what we do have.
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
Christmas in Indiana
This year we celebrated Christmas in Indianapolis with Terry's brothers & family. It was an easy 9 hour drive (since we stopped half way in St. Louis at the Hampton Inn due to our late start - I took too long to pack). We stayed at Lowell & Sherry's house since their 6 bedroom house has room for everyone. Even Terry's dad, Paul, and Sherry's mom, Oma, joined us this year. On Christmas Eve after some last minute shopping with Terry's brother Doug, I joined the women for the candlelight service at E91 Street Church which was definitely a highlight! Then we had a delicious dinner of beef stew, followed by the annual reading of "Twas the Night Before Christmas" before the kids each opened one gift. After the kids were all snug in their beds with visions of sugar plums dancing in their heads, I noticed that it was snowing out the window, covering everything with a fresh blanket of white. How perfect!
Thursday, November 25, 2010
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Southern Comfort & Respect
I was reminded today at Gramp's funeral how much I appreciate the traditions of small southern towns. I was awestruck by the respect of strangers who still pull off the road and stop while a funeral procession passes. It was so great to see the presence of the Marines who honored my grandfather's military service by playing taps, folding the flag, executing that famous slow motion salute, and then presenting the flag and Bible to the family.
Goodbye, Gramps. We love you!
Today, November 24, 2010, we bury my beloved grandfather, Haddox LeRoy "Gramps" Twilley (1915-2010). At age 95, he lived a long life and now I believe he is reunited with his son, my dad, and wife (Willie Grey). He had outlived his body which had become frail and this man who loved to tell stories could not longer bend your ear for hours on end. So, with his new body he will now be free to live eternity the way he would have wanted.
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
University of Alabama Revisited
On our 2-day journey back to Alabama for my grandfather's funeral, we stopped at my old stomping place in Tuscaloosa - University of Alabama. It was fun showing my boys, especially my little Bama fan Caleb, Bryant Denny Stadium and my old college dorms. I tried to point out the library and other points of interest but since the Iron Bowl is on Friday, the whole football thing overshadowed any educational interests they may have had. Here is a picture of Caleb & me in front of the stadium on this beautiful fall day at U of A. The Tide is sill rolling!
Saturday, January 30, 2010
Way to Go Caleb!
Thursday, January 14, 2010
The Grass is Still Green!
Today I saw grass for the first time in my backyard since Christmas! There is was, peeking out from the snow on the one side of the back yard that was not buried under drifts of snow. And do you know, it was still green! How do you figure that? It's been below freezing... even below zero...for weeks now, and I have green grass under the snow. How cool is that!
Monday, January 4, 2010
LookNam is 18 Today!
Our exchange student, LookNam, turned 18 today. Well actually she turned 18 yesterday, because she was born in Thailand where it was January 4th yesterday since they are 12 hours ahead of us. So, yesterday (Sunday), we threw a party in her honor and invited her friends. Most were international students and other exchange students she has meet at school, church and through ASF. Amazingly we had 16 teenagers here to celebrate, despite getting hit with a fierce snowstorm overnight. Our friend, Dim, a Thai woman we met in Marshalls while shopping one day, came over to help us cook a Thai feast. I can't begin to tell you the names of the food (except for the Rotel dip and chips for the picky Americans among us) but it was a big hit among the Thai kids especially. They were fighting over the leftovers! I think the Laabe was their favorite. I liked the shrimp Pad Thai....and the strange looking but yummy dessert with the tapioca and coconut milk.
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Monday, January 04, 2010
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Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Today my husband turned 52. Where does the time go? Surely it is not possible that I am only 9 months younger. It’s all a state of mind, right. How did we celebrate this anniversary of his birth in Korea so many years ago? Well, I awoke this morning to the sound of our dog throwing up on my pillow (he was having another seizure). So, I spent the better part of the morning washing all our bed linens. And even though Terry was recovering from a migraine he had the day before, he joined Josh and I in a game of scrabble while we watched even more snow fall. Afterward since I couldn’t talk anyone into building a snowman with me (what is wrong with kids today!), I gave up and ran to WalMart for some last minute birthday cards. After a quick round of wrapping, we gathered and watched Terry open presents. Then just our family of 5 went to celebrate at Shogun’s Japanese steakhouse - his favorite restaurant. To top off the evening, we had homemade chocolate cake with maple icing that is a required element to making Terry’s birthday’s perfect. Terry likes an understated, private, simple no-fuss birthday and it must include chocolate cake with maple icing and a trip to Shogun. It was indeed a quiet, restful day. No rushing, no chores, no work, no school. So there it is. Simple. Sweet. Perfect. Terry is my calm, my rudder, my true north. He is my helpmate, and as well stated in the movie “Julie & Julia”... the butter for my bread and the breath that I breathe. I hope we celebrate at least 52 more birthdays together!
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Year in Review
As we near the end of the year, as well as the 1st decade of the 2000’s, I thought it would be a good time to look back on the highlights of events and trends that shaped this time period - “for posterity sake” - as my dad would often say.
2009 will be the year most remembered for: The election of the 1st US African American president, the year Obama won the Nobel Peace Prize, comedian Al Franken joined the Senate, Alaska’s Palin resigned, the stock market crashed, TARP bailout bill saved our banks , “Cash for Clunkers,” plane crash on the Hudson, Swine Flu, Octomom, Jon & Kate + 8 - Jon, the balloon boy hoax, and the sudden death of the King of Pop - Michael Jackson. We also said goodbye to Walter Cronkite, Farrah Fawcett, Ed McMahon, Patrick Swayze, Jet Travolta, Bea Arthur, and Ted Kennedy. In sports, the Steelers won the Super Bowl, the Yankees won the World Series, Penguins won the Stanley Cup, Lakers won NBA, Jimmy Johnson took NASCAR, University of Alabama’s Mark Ingram beat Gator Tim Tebow for the Heisman trophy, swimmer Michael Phelps was busted for pot, and who could forget golfer Tiger Woods’ sex scandal. In entertainment, the movie “Slumdog Millionaire” won the Oscar, “Twilight Saga: New Moon” made vampires romantic, Chris Allen beat Adam Lambirt in 2009‘s American Idol competition, Russell Ferguson was America’s favorite dancer, British singer Susan Boyle became a household name, Kanye interrupted Taylor Swift, Chris Brown assaulted Rihanna, Letterman was blackmailed, and Miss California was dethroned.
Looking back on the first decade of 2000, we also remember events like: The Y2K bug failed to materialize, terrorism hit home with 911, tsunami killed 230,000 in South Asia, the Concorde crashed, financial crisis collapse of the dot coms, ballots were recounted and hanging chads became a political nightmare, Michael Phelps won 8 gold medals in swimming, a bodybuilder and actor became governor of California, a female became Speaker of the House, the Catholics welcomed Pope Benedict, Hurricane Katrina devastated the Gulf coast, Facebook & Twitter changed the face of social networking, YouTube was created, Wii became popular, Janet Jackson introduced the phrase “wardrobe malfunction,” and Apple introduced the ipod and the iphone.
Here’s a link to a couple year in videos that capture these events pretty well. Enjoy!
Yahoo’s 2009 Year in Review: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMKcSJ87jCM
Decade in Review: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c24kzS-UX3k
Sunday, December 27, 2009
Christmas in Kansas City
As I sit here in the very early hours of the morning, listening to the sounds of Christmas music by Mercy Me on TV and the snow plow outside in the cul-de-sac, in the soft glow of Christmas tree lights and a warm fireplace, I felt compelled to stay up even later to blog about our Christmas here at home in Kansas before I forgot the details that made it so special.
We decided last year after years of too much holiday travel between relatives homes, to let Santa come to our house in 2009 for a change. I think the kids were overdue and it eliminated all the rush & stress of packing, traveling, unpacking, transporting gifts, etc.. in a month where schedules are already jammed with too many activities and festivities.
We started December with a bang - all 3 kids and myself were busy rehearsing and performing in Christmas at Resurrection - 8 performances in 7 days. But we took out one night just before it began to attend the Raytown Baptist Church’s Heartland of America Christmas Pageant and that was indeed a treat. Since I’m usually in our annual church production, it’s nice to sit back and watch another church’s show for the pure joy of it. Theirs was indeed amazing. It began with Christmas and took us right through to Christ’s resurrection. Fast forward a week to COR’s opening night Christmas at Resurrection (CAR) performance and our opening night brunch after the show here in our house. I had so much fun preparing for it and, of course, had way too much food but had a great time opening our home to those who dedicated so much time to planning CAR all year! Thank you to my sweet friends Kelsey and Tracey who helped me set up and loaned me serving pieces!
After CAR, we busied ourselves with Christmas decorations, shopping, several more holiday parties, holiday cards, driving around looking at holiday lights, getting lost at Longview lake (again), baking goodies, eating goodies, visiting Crown Center’s gingerbread village, Union Station’s Holiday Train display, shopping at the Plaza with its famous lights, writing letters to Santa, seeing “Little House on the Prairie” at the Coterie and more shopping.
Then, school took a break, the shopping was done, the food prepared, activities ceased for a few days and we gathered, just our family, for a quiet celebration of Jesus’ birth. Since we were pelted by an ice storm and Josh had strep, we opted out of attending the Christmas Eve candlelight service and watched it right here in our home - online. We brought the Mac to the living room coffee table and all sat around watching the service via the internet’s live streaming broadcast. We even lit candles with the congregation at the end. Then we Skyped Terry’s relatives in Indiana for the annual reading of “Twas a Night Before Christmas” followed by the Christmas story from Luke in the Bible. Pappy (Terry’s dad) closed in prayer. It was fun being able to join the two families together for this rich tradition. Afterwards, everyone opened one gift. Then Caleb helped me put cookies & milk out for Santa, carrots for the reindeer. Then everyone was tucked snug in their beds while the blizzard winds blew in 8 inches of snow overnight. We woke to a beautiful White Christmas! Santa had come. Presents were opened. Wrapping paper was everywhere. Caleb got his Gators helmet & Tebow jersey. Josh got his flip video. LookNam got her macbook case. Terry got his Garmin and Moshi. I got my kitchen speakers for my iphone. Even Maverick got a new bone. Thanks to help from Hen House, we enjoyed a wonderful Christmas dinner followed by an evening of Christmas movies and just plain relaxing. Looking back, I’m glad we were home this year - especially since Josh got sick with 103 fever on Christmas Eve. Maverick was happy to share it with us too. But, I did miss being with all the aunts, uncles, cousins, brothers, and sisters. Sadly, however, as we get older, there are fewer of the older members of our family still with us. We lost Grandma Vi this year. Only Pappy remains as our last parent. It is up to our generation to carry on the traditions of Christmas. I write them here in detail so they will be captured and preserved in the blog book I hope to publish one day. Traditions are indeed rich and so much a joyous part of holiday celebrations.
Today, while Terry & Josh saw Avatar at the theater, I did venture out for a few post-Christmas sales but the snow began to fall again and chased me home early. At one point I was sitting in my car at an intersection listening to Mercy Me’s new song “I Heard the Bells” as I watched a homeless man begging for money on the corner. Normally I would have been irritated by this potential scam, however, today I reached into my wallet and handed him a $5 bill that I found in my wallet (everyone knows I don’t usually carry any cash). I could still hear the lyrics of the song...”Peace on Earth.” It was the right thing to do.
Thanks to the kindness of a stranger, my car (decorated like a reindeer with antlers & red nose) got a push and I (in my Santa hat) was able to navigate my way out of the Target parking lot and arrived safely home. Now we have 4 more inches of snow... measuring over a foot outside. It’s perfect. No one has to rush off to work or school for a week, so we can stay home, relax, and re-connect as a family.
In my next post I’ll write about the highlights of 2009 as we close in on New Year’s Eve and the end of the decade. But for now...it’s time for me to snuggle up in my cozy bed with my favorite dog at my feet...
What a wonderfully blessed time is Christmas. Thanks be to God for sending his son Jesus whom we celebrate in this season of giving.
Thursday, November 26, 2009
A Colorado Thanksgiving
On this special day of the year called Thanksgiving we pause to reflect upon all that we are thankful for. So, this year I am particularly thankful that we could spend this holiday with my sister, Lisa, and her family (and their Thai exchange student) in Dillon, Colorado at a friend’s condo. Colorado’s scenery is breathtaking and we got to show our Thai daughters snow for the first time among the majesty of the Rocky Mountains. How cool is that! Among the highlights were: tubing in Keystone, snowboarding in Breckenridge, a delicious dinner at Spencer’s at Beaver Run, shopping the after-Thanksgiving sales in Dillon, and all nine of us watching “Blind Side” together at a local theater (best movie I’ve seen in years).
Since my husband, Terry, is a direct descendent of Governor William Bradford, one of the pilgrims who settled at Plymouth all those years ago, I think it’s also important to reflect upon our rich heritage. How times have changed. How blessed we are as a nation and a family. We couldn’t have gotten to this place without the sacrifices of those who came before us... with a little help from our friends. What a blessing!
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Thursday, November 26, 2009
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Tuesday, November 17, 2009
A Colorful and Busy Fall
It’s been a particularly colorful fall this year. So enjoy these colorful photos of pumpkin patches, Halloween costume parties, and more. The field trip pictured was Caleb’s 2nd grade class to the Louisburg Pumpkin Patch. On Halloween eve we went to Deanna Rose’s Night of the Living Farm with the Websters & Alexanders. Then Kelsey and I went to the Hildebrand’s costume party and won 2nd place as Salt & Pepper (the original Spice Girls)! On Halloween we hosted game night at our house after Trick or Treating and the Huber’s won (of course)! I love watching the seasons change and the fun activities unique to each one!
Sunday, November 15, 2009
LookNam and Her Busy Social Life!
Since LookNam joined us, I pushed her into lots of activities so that she could have lots of experiences and meet new friends. Here are just a few more things she’s done so far: BVNW Homecoming with Win (another AFS student that goes to Bishop Miege), modeled her Thailand dress in a Blue Valley Schools cultural program, BVNW football games; dinner at Sullivans & BVN Homecoming with Peter Tassani and 26 other friends from YoungLife, attends YoungLife weekly on Monday nights, RezLife on Wednesday nights, Christmas at Resurrection rehearsals on Sunday afternoons; the Edge of Hell Haunted House & dance party; movies and hanging out at Sonic with friends from school, Royals baseball game night with AFS, Elly Reiger ASF weekend retreat; JDFR Walk for the Cure (diabetes); and more. I think we don’t have to worry about her feeling homesick. She is already juggling a pretty busy social calendar!
Monday, September 7, 2009
Renaissance Festival
We celebrated Labor Day this year at the Renaissance Festival with 7 exchange students from Thailand! Two were celebrating birthdays and so Looknam and I baked cupcakes to share with these AFS students for this impromptu birthday celebration.
It is always fun to turn back the clock 500 years, journey to Canterbury England and share in the merriment associated with the medieval days of pirates, princesses, and wenches. The boys loved the sword battles and jousting. And who doesn’t love a good turkey leg lunch and a funnel cake. But this year it was especially fun to see how foreign students reacted to the “Old English” of the many “actors” in the park. The weather was perfect this year and it was a delightful day all the way around!
Sunday, September 6, 2009
Pool Closing Party
Saturday, September 5, 2009
Caleb's 1st Touchdown!
In the Huskies first tackle football pre-season game of 2009, Caleb scored his first and the the team’s only touchdown! Number 15 can be seen running it past the goal line right here on our website by clicking on the video tab or clicking here! Ok, so we lost the game, but hey - we were so excited by Caleb’s big touchdown that it didn’t even matter. The very next Saturday, Caleb again scored two more touchdowns in their first season game. Even though one was called back due to illegal blocking, the Huskies scored their first big win with a couple more touchdowns from his teammates! Can you tell we are really proud of our 2nd grade full back and lineman?
Sunday, August 30, 2009
Welcome Looknam!


Sunday afternoon we picked up the newest member of our family: Surangkana Tornsatitkul (Looknam)- an AFS exchange student from Thailand. She is 17 and will be staying with us for the next 10 months. We had lots of fun converting our office into a 5th bedroom filled with pink things for our new daughter. She is so sweet and we know it will be a fun year sharing our country with Looknam as we also learn more about Thailand!






